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Mady and the last of Junior High

Mady has been a 14 year old teenage girl way to much lately. She has finished her volleyball for the year and she is currently debating on playing in high school or not. First of all, CONGRATULATIONS to her for making the high school golf team. She has worked hard these last couple years playing in the summer and going to lessons. She practiced for tryouts for a couple months focusing on hitting and walking the practice holes. But during tryouts all Coach Boyd had the girls do was hit a bucket of balls. It looks like she is the top of the Deer Park high school golfers right now even though she will only be a freshman. The dilemma for me and Tressa right now is how much to push her to play other sports. Personally I would love her to play volleyball and then she would be socially interactive with some girls from other schools. Atleast for her freshman year. I have noticed lately how goofy and funny she acts with her friends and I want that to continue and for her to build relationships with new people. She is debating on volleyball but loves basketball. the only problem there is that would interfere more with golf. She is better at golf than basketball but we cannot push her to pick only one. That she will have to find on her own. I don’t want to say “If you only play golf you will be the best one and on varsity as a freshman” then later down the road she regrets not playing other sports and ends up not liking golf. But whatever she chooses we will support and back her and as long as she is doing something that is all we want. Now on a personal note I am so so so very proud of her. She has worked hard and made it important and right now she is also making summer training program at school important. It will only get her better and make her stronger. I hope she stays with it all summer.

She played in her first 18 hole tournament and got first . She shot a 103. It was awesome to watch her and coach Myers and coach Boyd followed her for a couple holes. She played at Deer Park and beat 4 girls in her age group but if she played in the 15-18 year old group she would have gotten 3rd and there was about 10-15 girls in that group. We are really excited about this summer golf. Tomorrow she plays againest stiffer competition which will be good for her.

Her 8th grade year ended with her getting awards for robotics and for playing all 6 sports in junior high which is called the “super 6” award. I am very proud of her for that too because you have to commit yourself to participating in everything and not just going home after school. She did this while playing golf, club volleyball and making the honor roll. It is bittersweet about her leaving junior high. I love seeing her succeed and moving on and growing up but I will miss her being a baby and needing me. I love her independence and I will love seeing her grow and move on making a life of her own but I will miss her being a baby.

Her tennis season ended up being a fun one to watch. She didn’t take it too serious but she actually competited and I was proud of her effort. I won’t miss not watching tennis but it was good to see her play.

I wanted to talk about her school sports, her activities and finishing junior high in this post then speak about the 8th grade dance and all that fancy stuff in my next post. In a nut shell Mady is my oldest baby and will always be close. She acts like me her mother says and I have watched her play all the sports for years. Soon she will be making grown up decisions about what she wants to play in high school, what activities she wants to be in and what she plans for her life after school. I will be there to help with whatever she wants. I will misss seeing her play the “kiddy” little league stuff and not be able to coach or influence her that much. I could not be more proud of the young woman she is becoming and the way she has matured in her physical and social aspect of her life. It fills me with happiness even if I am grouchy about having to be a taxi cab for stuff or complain about her goofiness. Most of it is an act, just like hers, she too lives in my heart. Thank you Mady for letting me watch all the different things you have done and for all the new things you are fixing to embark on and accomplish. I love you more than anything in this world.

Ya’ll be safe out there !!

 
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Posted by on June 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

 
Aside

WOW!! I have not posted in forever. I have been so busy with school and the kids and I had great plans to sit at home at night and post things that happened. But I get home worn out from my taxi cab service taking the kids everywhere and at work I have been super busy getting ready for the end of school. Anyway I am gonna try and catch up. I am gonna do this by writing about both kids one post at a time then about what else has been going on. Ity may take a few days. I’ll start with Brad.

He had a great baseball season. We moved up to 12U this year and I was a little worried that he would struggle. He did a great job and ended up being a 2nd best pitcher behind a 7th grader. We didn’t have anyone to play with off hand so we got a call from Mike Biggs. He is a great guy and ask if they could freeze Brad and I said sure. He ask if I would help coach and I said yes so I was first base coach and I sat in dugout while we were in the field. Brad played a little catcher, outfield, third and pitcher. We went to Ricky Crawford to help with his hitting and it paid off. In the last couple of games he was 3-4 with a triple off the wall in left and a walk. I was sure the ball was gone. It hit the top of the fence. I usually yell at the guys to run and quit looking at the ball. In this case I was looking as well. haha!! Our friends Jody and Jennifer Mcbride’s son started playing teeball this year also. It was really neat to see Bubba on the big field and Bubbie on the little field. It was very endearing to me to see the girls grown and the boys just starting . Jody and Jennifer are the friends you are close to whether you see each other alot or not. I consider them family and their kids are mine.

He had an awesome year at pitcher as well. He has come such a long way since last summer. He pitched sporadically and even one time couldn’t throw a strike. This year he went 2-3 innings with ease and keeping us in the game. I am very proud of how he competes and makes things important. I was most impressed by how he threw in the end of season tournament. It is all week and a kid cannot pitch more than 8 innings in the week. So like I said we had this 7th grader that was our best. The coaches thoughts were to save him if we could. So The first game they started Brad. He was pulled after 3 inning winning 9-3 did great. The 7th grader only had to pitch one inning to close it out. The next night Brad pitched 4 innings and left winning 9-5 and seventh grader pitched 1 inning to close it out. So in the championship we could use Chase Moen the 7th grader the entire game. We ended up winning 9-7 I think and Brad was a huge part of that during the week. He had a great time this year and made some new friends.

We are currently playing a little all-star tournament againest the laporte all-stars. Last night was awesome. We won in extra innings. There was a little tricky thing that Brad did that got me excited while coaching first. He was at 2nd and a guy on 3rd. Somehow our guy goes home on a passed ball he is called safe and the catcher drops the ball on the ground. He begins to try and argue with the umpire and Brad rounds 3rd . Well as the catcher is arguing he has left the ball on the ground and Brad sprints home sneekily and slides just under the catchers tag after he notices him coming. It was very exciting and I was very proud of him making something happen.

Next year we will stay in this age group. I will put him on the mound more so he is even more comfortable. He has exceeded any expectations I have ever had for him or myself. He is a tremendously loving but competitive young man who I cannot be any more proud of. He lives in my heart.

Ya’ll be safe out there!!

Brad’s Baseball 2012

 
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Posted by on June 7, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Garden – past and present!!!!!

I have been growing a garden for about 14 years now. It started when we lived at our old house even before the kids were born. I started with a small 10×10 fenced in area. I grew a small amount of cucumbers and tomoatoes and just messed around with different stuff. When we moved to our current house I put in a garden on the right side of our garage. It was fairly small and I had a fence built across from the garage to the big fence to seperate it from the yard. The tomatoes didnt grow very well because there was always too much shade. I had success with eggplant and peppers. So what I did in the last couple years was extend the garden past the garage and all the way down to the back of the fence. It is now a pretty big area. I also built another fence all the way back to the end of the back yard. I tilled up as much as I could last year until the tiller burnt up and planted all my plants. I had some tires that I planted tomatoes in and they worked great. It was messy but very productive with okra, peppers, and tomatoes. The cucumbers did pretty well but they were a little taken up by weeds. The eggplants thrived late in the year as well as a couple pepper plants. I had trouble with the weeds and the mud next to the house. All in all it worked out good though and I also had a good success with my cantaloupe. I had never grown them before and learned alot about keeping them from getting mushy. My okra went crazy and I was able to freeze a bunch of it and the peppers and eggplant. Well this year I tried to fix it all up and make it nice. I made a walkway down the side with crushed granite and steps. I also had a guy come in and clean out all the weeds and grass and put in two yards of dirt. I also moved one of my sections of cyclone fence so the cucumbers could grow up the side. Before I go on I did plant a winter garden for the first time last year as well. I planted, collard greens and lettuce,cabbage and brocolli and cualiflower. The brocolli and cauflower didn’t produce as good but the greens I love. The lettuce was hard because it was hard to keep it from getting mushy but the cabbage did good and I am still pulling off collard green leaves and eating them. Brad loves them as well. Anyway, this year it is better organized. I have nice rows and I even tried to seperate the cantaloupe from the other stuff. I read that it likes shade better so I but it in the front. The stuff I planted in the tires works better so I may start trying to get as many tires as I can. The tomatoes in there now are huge. I also got some tomatoes from Stephen Harrell’s dad. He grows them from seed so that is exciting to have some Livingston grown tomatoes. My peppers don’t look as good right now but I am hoping they will come on strong. I planted a yellow squash that looks great. Ofcourse the okra is going good but like I said the peppers are what bother me. Just not growing as fast as I want. The weeds are coming in alot also I think I want to get a small tiller and till inbetween the rows to help out. I lined the outside with landscape timbers to try and help. I also put in some solar lights , haha, it looks cool but I don’t know how productive it will be.It is very relaxing and frustrating at the same time. I love getting it going but hate the weeds. I do have a great deal of pride when I am able to pull a large bucket full of produce. For example on nights we eat deer meat or fish or sausage and cook up some greens or okra and tomatoes everything we eat is from the garden. Except the cold beer!!!! Well I am looking forward to alot of produce and can’t wait to fill the freezer.

Ya’ll be safe out there!!

 
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Posted by on April 23, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Steer, Goldies Ranch, Champagne of Beer

We recently told my buddy Cary Grayson that we wanted him to put up a steer and feed it out for us to buy from him. He has cattle in Lagrange and me and Goldstraw and Beau decided to split one. It was in september or october when Cary started. The time came a month ago to go get it from the butcher. Goldstraw said , let’s just go to my ranch near there for the weekend and hangout and we can pick the meat up the next day. It was a plan and we were all set up. Me and Tres couldn’t go until later in the day because of Brad’s basketball game. So after that we all headed up. Beau and Brandee were already up there. So we get there and it is cold and windy. The kids played outside and we sat at the table talking and drinking. We had some chicken spaghetti that we heated up that night to eat and basically sat at the table all night us 6 adults sitting at the table talking about old times.  The wives went to bed fairly early and me and Beau and Goldie stayed up until about 2:45 solving life’s problems. About 2:38 we see Brandee come into the living room and say, “do ya’ll know it’s 3 oclock?” I quickly reply with “no Brandee it is only 2:38” needless to say we all went off to bed. I had taken some wine so we all had our fill and no one was in a rush to get up in the morning and get going or stay another night. So we caravaned to Breham to the butcher. They filled our ice chest and we were on our way home. When we left there we stopped by the Casa Ole’ that Cary used to own and ate. At home we split the meat up and I stacked mine in the freezer. I soon decided in the next day or so that we needed to cook one of the big sirloins. The things were huge!!!! One of them all four of us ate on. It took up almost half of my bbq pit. So I cooked it to perfection, we also made some homeade mashed potatoes. It was perfect. We have since made the rib eyes and some T-bones. That Cary Grayson can really grow some beef.

Ya’ll be safe out there!!

 
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Posted by on March 28, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Aunt Sissy, AJ Truax , and Tending to our Wives

Well it has been awhile since I posted after the move to my own domain name but I do have everything lined up with pictures to match some new post. I guess I will start off by talking a little about my aunt sissy. She passed away last night and was 85 I believe. She was the last living patriarch of the family. She was My Uncle Lanky’s wife. I knew it was coming but when I heard there was a flood of memories from Christmas and holidays and all the times at their house spending the night growing up. I remember once when Melody (her daughter) had girls over to spend the night and they were telling scary stories in her bedroom. She was older than me and I got scared and went in the kitchen with aunt sissy. I remember her making me feel like we were having a better time than Melody and her friends. It was a great feeling. So anyway, today is a blah, blue, emotional day for me. I guess I am taking this kinda hard because of her being the last one. I dunno. I am just struggling with it today. I have been moving alot of old reel to reel movies on to DVD and alot of old memories have been seen. Aunt sissy was a tremendous lady. She always understood the kids it seemed and was never harsh on us. I am sad today for losing aunt sissy and for feeling like everything from my youth is slowly slipping away.

I don’t wanna get too emotional so I will talk about one of Lounsbury’s buddies name AJ Truax who came down over spring break. He has been friends with louns forever and he was always telling me that I should meet him. Well I finally did. They came over one night and we sat on the porch and hung out and cooked. I made him some homeade sausage and we sat around and cracked on louns. Grisham showed up for a little while too and he jumped on our side. Usually Louns is attacking me or AJ. But we sided with each other and were getting on him about normal stuff. It was to the point of Louns saying ” I don’t know if I like the fact that ya’ll have met”. It was a great time sharing stories growing up, he was a great guy and that makes two people that Louns knows that are good guys, me and AJ LOL!!,. We hooked up again at Border and we had dinner and then I went over Louns the last night he was here. I gave him a Texans shirt to take back to New York and us three had a few beers and visited before he left. I consider him my firend now and not just Louns buddy. Maybe some day we can make the trip to New York and see them up there.

One little sidebar funny is about our friend Rick Holt, he couldn’t come over cause he said his wife was sick and he told us to stop texting him while he was tending to his sick wife. We pictured him like Wyatt Earp with a wet rag while his wife lay in bed and patting her head with the rag. Then when she dozed off he would finally have some time to sit and relax. SOOOOO being the non sarcastic guys we are we sent him a couple pics of us “tending” to our wives.

Ya’ll be safe out there!!

 
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Posted by on March 27, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Al’s Birthday, Brad’s 5 pounds, and Orange Bombs

Well this is my first post on the new site. Hope it is as easy as the old one cause it took forever to transfer everything. Anyway my buddy Al Vasquez had a birthday recently and we went up to Guidry’s to celebrate. It turned out to be a long fun night of crawfish and drinks. The owner is a guy named Chad Guidry and Al has been hanging out there for a long time. It even goes back to the days during softball when Guidry’s was just a hole in the wall place where you had to bring your own beer and only served crawfish. Now he has a full menu and a neat restaurant with regular seating and a nice little bar area. The crawfish is great as well. Ok, so we meet them up there and get a big round table. It is Al, Sonja, us, our kids, Robert Sanchez and Al’s sister to start off. We get us a few buckets and order the crawfish. Brad eats 5 pounds on his own , plus a boudin link, and an order of boudin balls. Ofcourse sonja is impressed. The conversation is great and Chad starts sending samples of different appetizers. He also starts sending over shots he calls “orange bombs”. I call them roofies because everytime we have them someone gets way too drunk. They taste like sunkist drink shots. So the night progresses and we eat more and more crawfish and have a great celebration. We end up leaving and Al stays a little longer and you can tell by the pic he was having some fun and feeling no pain. We all had a blast and I even mentioned to Tres the next day how great a time we had. We always have such a good time with Al and Sonja. I can’t wait for Garner and to spend the week with them then. ok, lets see if I can post

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Posted by on March 1, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Brad playing Baseball and his teams website

Brad is starting baseball this week. I am pretty excited about it. We had a parent meeting last night and even though I am one of the coaches helping out the head coach seems really into it and teaching the fundamentals. He is playing with an older group. We decided to move up to 12U, his birthday falls where he could have stayed down on 10U but I thought it would be better if he was pushed. We are playing with some guys that are already in 7th grade and I am looking forward to watching him pick up his game with the older kids. They have him set to catch alot and to pitch. Hopefully some outfield also. The coach is Steve Moen and he has already set up a website that I will attach to this blog as well. I don’t have any pictures but we go to the batting cages tomorrow and he will use some of their bats. He has to use a new bat this year and I want him to try a few before we shell out the money for a new one. Here is the website for his team. He plays on the Giants.
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Posted by on February 14, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Basketball, Kristen Stehling, Volleyball and Golf

Mady is playing basketball and doing very good. They even have her playing post some of the time. I would like her to pass the ball a little better but she is getting taller and playing hard and having fun. The district tournament was this past weekend and she did really great. They beat Friendswood which is always tough to do. I think Mady played 3 different posititions and had 4 points and 2 rebounds and a steal. It is great to see her so excited and enthusiastic about playing. She uses her body very well when she rebounds and plays great defense using her size. It is so cool watching her play againest a much taller post but she works hard not letting the girl go around her. Then turns and has excellent position on the rebound. They had a free throw contest at the varsity game awhile back and Mady ended up winning. She hit 4 out of 5 and got a shirt. I was so proud of her. In the tournament they played DPJH on saturday and came up short. It broke my heart to see her upset on the bench as her team wasn’t able to put together a victory. I could see her physically upset and crying as the time winded down. One of our best players and a great kid, Arika Halling, fouled out and when she sat next to Mady she was patting her on the back. Is tears you up because you want all the success in the world for your kids and never want them to have dissappointment but then also you know it is good for them to experience the ups and downs in life. Anyway, she had a great year and loves basketball. Her club volleyball team is doing good also and she is one of the better players. It is still the lowest team but she is building confidence in not just volleyball but leadership as well. At her last tournament we just happened to see my cousin’s daughter who is an excellent volleyball player at Klein Collins, we don’t get to see them much so it was cool to get her and Mady to get a picture together. Mady is also making some new friends on this team that I also think is great for her socially. Golf is kinda taking a backseat and I am struggling with that. Coach Mark Boyd has mentioned to me that with Mady’s scores and how she improves she has the possibility to be on varsity or JV as a freshman. He mentioned a group of good girls they have that would be a good influence on her as well. Well I know there is no garuntees and I know she must earn any spot she gets but thinking as an excoach I wanna tell Mady what her best options are but I have to be a parent and let her do what she wants and be supportive. I am looking at her playing 9th grade volleyball and 9th grade basketball or possibly varsity or JV golf golf, but I want her to choose what she wants to do. Everything is moving so fast and she is about to be a high schooler and I just want it all to slow down. I miss my baby!!
Ya’ll be safe out there!!
 
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Posted by on February 6, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Chinese New Year and "I gave them 3 of them"

Chinese new year is always a fun time for us. We went to China Garden again this year and I was able to stay the whole time. It was rainy so after dinner the kids didn’t go out in the street to see the dragon dancers but they danced throughout the entire restaurant. It was us and Greg and Amanda to start and soon after Bo and Amanda showed with their kids. This year something funny happened. Dada had gotten 100 dollars in ones for all the grandkids to give to the dragons. Well he handed it to Mady and told her to split them up equally between each grandkid. It came out to be about 15 dollars a kid. So we ate and the food was great as always. I screwed up the diet I was on by having a few scotch and waters and ofcourse I had to have some of the spicy shrimp. But anyway the kids all walked around the room and sat at the bar giving their dollars to the dancers. Mady had brought a friend named Chelsea Graham and she was showing her what to do and to give the dragons the dollar bill through their mouth. I didn’t pay much attention because I had seen this take place numerous times throughout the years. So the night ended and we drove home. When we got home Brad ask me to hold a wad of dollar bills. He got his wallet from the cabinet and ask me to place the bills in it as he held it open. I noticed it was 12 dollars. I said “bubba where did you get this money” he replied with “dada gave it to me” I said, “Bard you were supposed to give that to the dragon dancers” he said, ” I gave them 3 of them”. My son the entrepreneur. Year of the dragon I believe.
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Posted by on February 6, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

Brad Basketball and Starting Baseball

Brad is playing City Basketball and he is really doing a great job. Our team is not the best but we have improved every week. We practice at the same time as the other Fairmont Elementary team and I think it has helped us to scrimmage them every practice. At first Brad seemed to try and force alot of shots and act as if it was basketball played out in the driveway. But he has since calmed and has been a good team player. I have notcied he has a very nice shot and has very good court sense. He shoots his free throws well, and is aggressive on the press. We got beat bad in the first game. But then made adjustments and won our last 3. We were even losing 10-1 in this weekends game and came back to win 17-12. I think Brad had 6 points in that game. I played our best 5 in the last quarter and had Dylan Heim and Brad on the court at the same time. Their athletic ability really showed and helped us come back to win. Looking forward to seeing these guys play in 7th grade. I am very proud of his competitiveness and athleticism. I try and coach him and help him understand I am not griping like a dad but trying to coach him and make him better. One example is this weekend. At the end of the game we were winning by 6 points with 1 minute to go. I kept saying lets not force a shot and slow down we don’t have to score. Well I mentioned this in a timeout and then in our next possession Brad tried to force a shot so I took him out with 40 seconds to go and explained to him why. He was upset and I told him why. He did seem to understand. Hopefully that will be in his mind for later on. I want him to know the entire game of basketball so he will understand why and what to do. He will be starting baseball soon. We move up to the 12U field and will be playing with Mike Biggs. I am looking forward to Brad being pushed with the older kids. I hope I stay focused on watching him grow and be pushed by someone other than me. More on baseball in coming post. I hadn’t posted about Brad so I wanted this one to only be about him.
Ya’ll be safe out there!!
 
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Posted by on February 6, 2012 in Uncategorized